March 7, 2008

On Endings

It is done. My fiance and I are no longer engaged. That is to say Elisse and I broke up. Everyone keeps asking "why?" and all I really can say to that is that we both decided that we needed to grow, and we decided that we needed to do that alone. My heart aches like it has been sat on, but slowly. Not any kind of sharp pain, just a dull sense of loss. This time there was no fire, no explosion, no anger even. We both just decided to not be together anymore. And that, as they say, is that.

1 comment:

Kevin Lavin said...

Hang in there, buddy. Things get better and experiences like this move you on to the next chapter in life. You have SO much ahead of you!